| Location | Port Glasgow |
| Age | 33 years |
| Date of Birth | 9/1968 |
| Date of Death | 11/2001 |
| Visitors | 1,622 since 24/08/2006 |
| Creator |
In memory of my brother Matthew who took his own life at the age of 33.He left many questions and many broken hearts. No words can describe the pain that death brings to those we leave behind, or the everlasting sorrow that the word suicide can burn into our hearts.
Matthew we all grieve for you,and wonder if there was something we could have done, and ask how could we the ones who love you most miss the signs...forgive us.... your pain is over, ours will last till the end.
My brother was a good man with a good heart and he will be missed by us all. This site is not to mourn his passing but to celebrate his life and the lives of all those we loved and lost. Matthew has a daughter Andrea(where ever you are honey we want you to know we love and miss you).
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When I have no one to turn to
And I am feeling kind of low,
When there is no one to talk to
And nowhere I want to go,
I search deep within myself
It is the love inside my heart
That lets me know my Brother is there
Even though we are miles apart.
A smile then appears upon my face
And the sun begins to shine.
I hear a voice, so soft and sweet
Saying, 'Everything will be just fine'
It may seem that I am alone
But I am never by myself at all.
Whenever I need my Brother near
All I have to do is call.
A brother's love is always true
On that you can depend.
He will always stand behind us
And will always be our friend.
Through darkest hours and brightest days
Our Brother see us through
He smile when we are happy, and will cry when we are blue..
Thanks for being my Brother, my friend
I will be there for you until the end....xxx
10th Anniversary
Another day for you to wonder, another day for you to mourn
It wasn't my intention to go before the coming dawn
My pain was deep within my heart and troubled head
It wasn't my intention to go without words said.
My frame of mind seemed normal, or so I heard them say
It wasn't my intention not to see another day
I did not mean to make you suffer or cause you so much pain
It wasn't my intention to never see you again.
Despair and confusion left my aching mind unsure
It wasn't my intention to suddenly close life's door
If only I could give you reasons and brush the tears away
It wasn't my intention to leave you and not stay.
I did not mean for you to grieve, now left alone to cry
It wasn't my intention to leave you, forever asking why
As the burdens of life's worries slowly ebb from my heart
it wasn't my intention to tear your soul apart
missed always
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__*α*__ *α*_*α*__*α*...All
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_*α*_____*α*_____*α*...Angels
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___*α*________*α*...Are
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_______*α*α*...Precious
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love u long time lol xxx
hii uncle matt x guess whos pregnant again x gotta keep u busy up er so ul hav another great niece or nephew tae look after xx luv u hunners n hunners xxx
just keepin u in the loop x
Hi uncle matthew,
it still feels like the other day we were sittin on the couch playin gran turismo on the playstation lol x you always made sure ur liscence plates read 2cool x kierans gettin big, hes 3 now n ur goin to be a great uncle again ( well a think its great uncle lol ) xx missin u loads and thanx for showin andrea n doreen the way back to us xx she looks so much like u n we get on like she was never away anywhere xx luv u lots n lots x thanx for watchin over us all xxxxxxxxxxx
Year 1
Well its been a year now since william joined you, i hope your both ok, i miss and love you both. xxx
Checkin in
hey bro been a while. Your nephew is 16 now and stayin on at school(good lad), he misses his daddy very much and i miss him and you both, take care of each other love you all, till we meet again in the summerland. xxx
♥~~♥~~♥ Inside Your Heart ♥~~♥~~♥
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....`’•,,• ’.
Your loved ones are all around
They're ever where with you
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....`’•,,• ’.
They'll help you go on with life
Until your time is through
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....`’•,,• ’.
Although your days seem dark now
They're still there to comfort you
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....`’•,,• ’.
Just look inside you heart
Thats all you need to do
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’•,`’•,*,• `,•’
....`’•,,• ’.
Copyright© Ingrid Aspey 8/4/10

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